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class/event creator, organizer, hostess, coach, & speaker

it's a one woman show 

Erica Sandquist

Dating & Life Coach

Hostess for Single Mingles & Events

Hostess for Couples "Date Your Mate" Events

Communication & Relationship Class Creator, & Educator

 Entrepreneur Rookie/Wannabe

Juice Newton ~  

"Queen of Hearts"

This song comes to mind every time Erica hears "Queen of Hearts" !  She just LVES dancing and singing along to it!  Sorry in advance if it becomes stuck in your head! lol


A Queen of Hearts

Erica L❤VES hosting Speed Dating events, singles events, and leading communication & relationship classes.  She's hosted classes and events in Spokane (Washington), Minnesota, AND Venice (Florida). 

As a young mother, despite being both Dyslexic and Autistic/"Aspie" (Aspergers), she earned two college degrees in 6 years including a Master's in "Teaching & Learning".   Erica then spent 16+ years total as a teacher in St. Paul (MN) & then Seattle (WA).  Erica left teaching in 2012 to pursue personal TIME freedom through being a life and business coach. 

Growing up in a very dysfunctional family (of emotional blackmail, manipulation, verbal & psychological abuse) and then not being able to get her needs met in her 16-year marriage to a good man and friend, Erica turned to the experts (counselors, therapists, life coaches, AND personal trainers) to help navigate the heartache & confusion.  Over the last 20 years, she's spent countless hours and dollars learning, discussing, reading, watching videos, and listening to audiobooks on relationships and communication.  

She took her education, teaching experience, life coach skills, and counseling when she returned to her home state (for 5 years) to help take care of her abusive parents through their medical emergencies.  By being both their caregiver AND still an (adult) "child" in their homes again, she was able to identify the abuse,  work through the triggers and depression,  understand how the abuse was her FOUNDATION (since it was there before she even had language), and how to reframe it to help her land in a healthier emotional place.  

She talks the talk because she has walked the walk ... aka "done the work"! 

The name Erica means "ruler" or "queen".  Since the early 2000s, she's been told by countless people that she's a healer.   However, she always thought that meant she should've healed people by being a nurse or maybe a Reiki practitioner ... which was of no interest to her.

One day, tears came to Erica's eyes when realized that she WAS healing others' hearts by sharing her knowledge, giving support, and coaching people through hard heart lessons!

So in May 2019, Erica started teaching classes on relationships and communication PLUS started hosting events (like speed dating) for singles as well. It was well-received in the community as people are hungry for healthy relationships and just not sure how to get there. They also need FUN ways of meeting other QUALITY singles.  In 2021, Erica started doing events for couples as well.  Keeping couples together in a healthy fun way is as important as getting singles into great relationships.

Erica, the Queen of Hearts, helps people see what an emotionally healthy relationships looks like, sounds like, and FEELS like.  By sharing how their childhood may have affected their decisions (with patterns), clients can learn how to change courses IF they choose to "do the work". 

 Lastly, by sharing the roadmap of what to expect with dating in today's world, singles are more likely to navigate the DATING, MATING, & RELATING JOURNEY  with joy instead of dread.  We're all in this together!  Let's act like it.  ;)

Yakov Smirnoff's 

"Happily Ever Laughter" PBS Special

Erica had the honor of being able to train with (Dr.) Yakov Smirnoff (about masculine/feminine energy theories... something they were both researching at the time) while at the same time helping him with his different projects ... one of which was his "Happily Ever Laughter" PBS Special! 

 That's Erica on stage at the end of taping! She's in the blue and white flower jacket.  It was SUCH an amazing experience.  

(Erica actually co-designed the stage!  The next day after Yakov saw the photos, he said to Erica, "I had no idea it looked THAT good. You have TALENT."  Erica was beaming!  The last photo is a picture of the tv showing the credits with Erica's name on the video.  She thought that was pretty cool!)

Erica Meeting "His Needs, Her Needs" Author

WHO got to spend the ENTIRE day with renowned author Willard Harley, his family, & comedian turned relationship coach Yakov Smirnoff?!  That's right!  Erica did! :)

This book was a turning point in Erica's life when she came across it in 2009.  It was 2016 when she got to meet Dr. Harley in person and by then she had already recommended this book to at least 50 clients, friends, and/or complete strangers!

Meeting Dr. Harley was a DREAM COME TRUE for Erica!  And to be able to spend the entire day together with him, his wife, son, and daughter-in-law along with Yakov Smirnoff was icing on the cake!  What amazing conversation about what men and women NEED in relationships vs. what we THINK and DO!